7:59 PM 8/24/2009
Today,occured an incident which forced me to think what is wrong?....Nature,parenting or today's generation's mentality,that obviously includes me.
Today one of my most infamous cousin tillu was kind of grounded because he was continously sending friend requests on a social networking site to the persons especially girls whom he even dont know...Yes,he is wrong in doing SO he should be punished in doing so....
But the latter thing draw my much attention and thought..that why he is doing so....i.e. sending friend requests to unknown girls.
He is 15 now,thats his age of adoloscence. It is one of laws of nature that one sex is attracted to opposite one at this age...But in our society,I dont know hell why, at this age if he is talking to girls,he would be punished hard and will be considered a typical "bohot bigda hua baccha"...But I can not understand this thing at all that why even at my age ..if I am talking to a girl..this is not considered good at all...What do the parents and society wants us all to be..desperate or gays? that sounds funny but thats damn true..even I know many persons who either are highly desperate or turned to gays...And desperation,I dont consider is good at any level...High no. of rapes are the example of this thing...
If one person is asked about this that what is wrong with that....then I am definite that his answer would be that if a guy and girl at this age will talk so much..they can reach for physical relations that will ultimately ruin their lives.I cant unnderstand that why and how it will ruin their lives when contraception and thousand other things are available...
And a question above all...why sex is considered as an evil thing?????I took a note on this thing while reading "the Da Vinci code" which stated that sex was considered ritualistic before a certain time...And even in Indian tradition it is mentioned as one of the most important parts of lives.....Even if sexual isolation is there...A person would definitely keep tangled in this...because the only thing he crave for will be opposite gender only....And thats one of the most important reasons that America is ahead of India...Belive it or not...Because 90% people here care only about sex...
Everything has been planned by the nature....Why humans were made men and women...why not hermaphrodite? Why mating was made compulsory for continuation of a specie? Why dolphins and humans are only species who "enjoy" mating?Why age of puberty is near by 15...? Hell why this age only..?And when puberty is newly attained and a boy/girl is excited about that.....he is kept isolated from other sex...Why deforming of nature's law? what is level of human in front of nature?A fleshling who even cant control the time of his own life!!!
Am not saying that a kid should be allowed freely to have physical relations...but at least complete islation is not a good option.If you want complete progress of a child..Why to put in his/her mind that he is devoid of something he extremely enjoy....Why not he be made tension free of that???so that only carreer is important for him??
There are parenting traditions and parents have been blindly following that for centuries and sadly,they'll be doing so for many more centuries......but still....there's always hope...Maybe I am wrong in my thoughts...but m right in my eyes....
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